Men in Kenya are usually very loud at lecturing women and young girls about sex work, selling sexual content, and posting thirst traps online, yet they’re the primary consumers.
Men here and world over fuel the demand for sex related content from subscribing to OnlyFans to watching porn content, all the way to sharing and spreading them on online groups and channels.
Then, when it comes to judging and criticizing, they’re quick to go after the very women they’re buying the content and sex from.
Notably, they are conveniently silent about their friends who are buying and enabling the very content they complain about.
Truth is, this industry will continue to thrive because it’s the menfolk creating a demand for sex work every other day.
For instance, all the telegram and WhatsApp channels created to expose women are ALL made by men … for fun and fapping.
If menfolk are going to criticize sex workers, then they, together with their buddies, need to be held accountable as well. Sex work is a product of patriarchy, and it’s a man’s desire for these very services that keep the cycle of production going.
Men, recognize your role in this whole mess you’re pretending to hate.
Tunajua Mnanyonga nazo mbaya sana! So ua soko, then utakua ume ua biashara ya wenye kuuza! simple!
You can’t sit back and criticize women for selling sexual content when you and your friends are the ones buying.
Blaming women is the easy way out; hold yourselves freakin’ accountable!
If you REALLLLY want to discourage the trade, simply stop buying the content, stop watching porn, and leave and delete social media channels that sell and house such content.
Endless posts on Facebook and X the twitter bashing young women for their choices haven’t changed anything so far into 2025.
If you are serious about ending the exploitation, then you need to stop feeding the market.
And let’s not forget the young men.
We’ve seen revelations about older men in recruiting young broke men into the sex trade and paying them to engage in sexual acts.
This issue is bigger than we like to admit, and it’s time for men to confront their role in this, not just when it affects women, but when it affects young men as well.
The Bottom Line,
Men, yes I am addressing you, at the end of the day, the power to change this moral structure is in your hands, and this cycle of “sin” will continue as long as YOU men are still consuming it!
You are not merely the target customers, YOU are the only market. If you want it to stop, just shut your wallet, be faithful to your partner, log out, and go catch a real book or lift weights at the gym!